V60 2021 - What upgrades am I able to do?

[gurkburk]

Yes, it's a simple on/off basically to enable AA, same as dealer. Nothing will get you wireless AA built in. That's not a thing on any Volvo.
Yes, 90% sure"Bendy lights" are the same. It's cheaper to make one set of parts for a smaller car company so lights are pretty standard. It's why even a 2019 can get Adaptive Headlights or "Shadow lights" as some people call them because we got the same headlights they have in Europe.
You can add Pilot Assist and Auto Cruise Control.

Yeah I've understood that the AA is wired no matter what. For Wireless I'd need a dongle of sorts.

Funny thing with my V60 is that most things are there, Pilot assist, Adaptive Cruise control etc. 

Bendy lights are not, however I saw a picture the other day that the ones with hardware capabiltiy for this had a string of text inside the lights, however not sure if thats always true/correct?

I mainly want to activate Smart phone integration/AA & Sensus Navigation. The internet maps is some of the worst things I've ever used. & if possible, bendy lights & oh, the Gearbox optimisation from the polestar optimisation(?).

That was me you were talking to on Reddit so you can trust what I told you…

Welcome.

I thank you for the responses over there too! I've bought the cable for the deed & will likely be buying the orbit package this or next week. Is the operation straight forward in the software when you're connected to the car or is it a good idea to have a guide on your hands? I've got the excel file with the huge list of codes. However I'm unable to find these thing's I'm looking for in it?