Bending Lights and Active High Beam

[glennda5id]

I have 2016 XC90 which did not come with an HCM headlights. 
First question, to use adaptive do you need to turn on auto high beams? 
Second, US cars by default do not remember "Auto High Beam: setting when the car is turned off. 

My original config was 106::05 LED With Bending Light, type A, Top Range
Changes to
106::06 LED With Bending Light, type B, Top Range

Should this allow it to remember the setting? It doesn't seem to work.

Third: I have a 2021 XC40 BEV. It has bending low beams. It does not have Pixel lights. Does 109 Active High Beam, setting to  adaptive do anything with this car?